As we go about our daily lives, we often unknowingly project impressions about ourselves through our habitual actions. Unknowingly, some everyday habits can give off the impression that we’re cheap. Here are five such habits that might be making you look cheap without you even realizing it.
1. Always Hunting for Discounts and Freebies
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to save money, but being obsessed with discounts and freebies can give off the impression that you’re cheap. If you’re always holding out for a sale or constantly visiting websites like BuzzFeed for the latest freebie, it might be time to reconsider.
A better approach might be to focus on value over cost, and invest in quality items that will last over time.
2. Complaining About Prices in Social Gatherings
Complaining about prices at social gatherings can make you come across as cheap, and potentially make others uncomfortable. While it’s alright to have a conversation about finances in the right context, frequently bringing up the cost of things in casual conversation can give the impression that you’re overly focused on money. Instead, try to steer the conversation towards more positive topics.
3. Overusing Coupons on Casual Dining Out
Using coupons can be a smart way to save money, but overdoing it, especially when dining out with friends or on a date, can make you look cheap. For example, if you’re always suggesting restaurants based on whether they accept a coupon you have, it might give the impression that you’re more interested in saving a few dollars than enjoying a meal. Instead, consider using coupons discreetly or when you’re dining alone.
4. Wearing Worn-out or Outdated Clothing Regularly
Your appearance can often speak volumes about you. Continuously wearing worn-out or outdated clothing can give the impression that you’re unwilling to invest in yourself. This doesn’t mean you have to follow every fashion trend or spend a fortune on your wardrobe. But, as this book suggests, maintaining a well-kept, up-to-date wardrobe can make you look and feel more confident.
5. Always Splitting Bills to the Last Penny
While it’s important to make sure everyone pays their fair share, always insisting on splitting bills down to the last penny can make you appear cheap. It gives the impression that you’re more concerned with your own finances than the enjoyment of the group. A better approach might be to agree on a rough split that’s fair for everyone, or to take turns picking up the tab. As this study indicates, generosity can often lead to better social relationships.
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