Yeah, so my father-in-law (FIL) recently stumbled upon ChatGPT, and it’s been a wild ride. He’s been diving into full-on conversations with the old digital companion, mostly chatting about his cars and some creative ideas for paint jobs. Honestly, it’s pretty innocent and harmless, as far as my FIL goes. We did manage to get through to him on one important front: not to share any personal data with this thing. Baby steps, I guess.
But then, in the midst of one of his ChatGPT sessions, he turned to me and said, “You know, young people today really have it easy. They have access to these wonders!” He waxed poetic about how back in his time, the only option was one computer at the local library. He described the trek he had to make from campus to that library, often having to book a slot after hours when he could barely keep his eyes open. It was a real struggle for him, and you could hear the nostalgia dripping from his voice.
As he continued to extoll the virtues of Sam Altman’s “wonder machine,” I felt a knot forming in my stomach. I knew I had to say something. So, I carefully explained that, while yes, technology has brought certain conveniences, these advancements might also be actively screwing over young people in the job market.
“Have you thought about how AI is taking over jobs?” I asked, trying to keep my tone neutral. “Young people in university often wonder what they’re even studying for anymore because entire industries are being affected.” I detailed my concerns about automation and how jobs that were once the bread and butter of college graduates are now increasingly going to AI.
His response? Absolute radio silence. It was like I was speaking a different language. You could see the gears turning in his head, but they weren’t connecting to anything I was saying. Instead, he just shifted the conversation right back to his favorite subject: cars. What color he should paint his car, what types of designs would work best—anything but the existential threat to the livelihoods of the young people he claimed to pity.
This experience made me realize something profound: Boomers don’t ignore what we say out of malice. It’s more like whatever we try to discuss doesn’t even register with them. He just wanted to talk at me about vehicles and colors, and rather than bridging a gap with meaningful conversation about the changing world, he was entrenched in his own nostalgia.
It was interesting to witness, honestly. I mean, I get that he’s from a different era—one where the digital age was just a twinkle in the eye of the future. Still, you’d think that as technology progresses, there would be some sort of acknowledgment about the hurdles that come along with it. But no, it’s as if he’s simply unable to connect the dots between his experiences and the realities facing today’s youth.
He continued to rave about how young people have the entire world at their fingertips while I sat there, resigned to the reality that this was going nowhere. I could have handed him a pamphlet detailing the impact of AI on employment, but really, what good would that do? The conversation felt like shouting into a void. It was all just an amusing yet slightly frustrating reminder of how generational gaps can profoundly shape our understanding of technology and its impacts.
So, while my father-in-law finds joy in his AI chats and marvels at how easy things are for the younger generation, the reality is a bit more complicated. As I listened to him outline his perfect car paint scheme, I couldn’t help but feel a mix of amusement and exasperation. It’s almost endearing how oblivious he is to the bigger picture, living in his own bubble of nostalgia and mechanical dreams while the world churns on around him—AI and all.
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