“My sister’s getting married next month and I still do not have a bridesmaid dress,” @amanda.bertone announces at the start of her video, already unboxing the evidence of her own procrastination. “So let’s try on everything that I just ordered.” What follows is a real-time, slightly frantic try-on session covering multiple dresses in multiple sizes, ordered from Revolve and Nordstrom, in a last-minute bid to find something that actually works.
The core problem, Amanda explains, is color. Her sister wants the three bridesmaids — her soon-to-be sister-in-law, Amanda’s older sister, and Amanda herself — each in a different shade of pink, ranging from a deep burgundy wine tone to a mauve pink to, in Amanda’s case, the lightest shade of the bunch. “I feel like I drew the short straw,” she says, eyeing the palest option. “Pink is so hard because there’s so many different shades and nothing photographs like what it actually looks like.”
Dress one, a one-shouldered draped style, reads noticeably more “Pepto Bismol” in person than on camera, she says, and isn’t especially forgiving through the midsection — though she concedes the cut itself is pretty. Dress two, in a medium, turns out to be too big everywhere except the torso, after the small proved too snug to zip. Dress three fits on top but goes wrong at the bottom, forcing her to twist the whole thing around just to zip it from the front. “Get this off of me,” she says, moving on.
The fourth option, an unlabeled dress with an attached neck scarf and no zipper, actually earns some real praise — she calls it the prettiest of the bunch so far, and the one that feels most like her, even if the color runs lighter than expected. Then comes a curveball: a dress her sister suggested despite originally wanting solid colors for the bridesmaids. It reads whiter than expected in photos, has a fishtail hem, and — in the video’s most unexpected twist — turns out to be damaged straight out of the packaging. “There’s holes all in the dress,” Amanda says, inspecting the torn corset seam. “So we’re just selling damaged clothing now?”
By the end of the video, Amanda hasn’t landed on a winner, and she’s upfront about it: “I’m not totally sold on anything yet.” She promises a second round covering the Nordstrom options and opens the floor to her audience for opinions on what she’s already tried — turning what could have been a stressful, solo wedding-prep scramble into something her followers got to weigh in on with her.
Bridesmaid Dress Shopping, Without the Guesswork
Everything above is drawn from what Amanda tried on and said in her video. It’s a relatable snapshot of a task nearly every bridesmaid eventually faces — finding a dress that fits a specific color palette, a specific budget, and a body that doesn’t always match a size chart across three different brands.
- Order multiple sizes when you’re short on time. Amanda’s approach — ordering a couple of sizes per style — is exactly what stylists recommend when there’s no time for a fitting before the deadline, since online sizing varies significantly by brand.
- Photograph every option in the same lighting. Colors, especially shades of pink, can shift dramatically between how they look on camera and in person; comparing photos side by side in similar light helps cut through that distortion.
- Inspect for damage before assuming a dress is unwearable for other reasons. Amanda’s torn corset seam is a good reminder to check construction details, not just fit, before writing off a dress — a damaged item can often be exchanged.
- Get a second opinion, even an informal one. Turning the decision into a group try-on, whether with an actual audience or just a few trusted friends, takes pressure off making a $150+ decision alone under a deadline.
Bridesmaid dress shopping rarely goes as smoothly as a single flawless first try-on, and Amanda’s honesty about the process — the ill-fitting sizes, the surprising colors, the literally damaged dress — is exactly what makes it feel useful rather than aspirational. For anyone else standing in a pile of tried-on dresses a month before a wedding, it’s a reminder that this part is supposed to be a little messy.
You can watch the full video and follow @amanda.bertone on TikTok for more.
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